Creating a family

I want to have kids when I am 22. My fiance` disagrees in having children, even though I told him, that I will look after them and having them early would be for better for my health (Life expectancy for my family is very low). All he thinks is money..

Final Results

1st.
Convince him to the end
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70%
2nd.
to early to consider
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20%
3rd.
Postpone child til late
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10%
4th.
Not have the child at all
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0%

Comments:

The decision to have children is a major one. It is so big that it should be a deal maker or braker when it comes to getting married. And it's one that requires both parties to be on board and ready to assume all of the responsibilities. You're not buying a puppy, you are bringing a new human being into the world. It's not a hobby, it's a 24/7 job. Frankly, a marriage cannot survive if only one partner is willing to be the parent. I suggest that you reevaluate your marriage plans. VOE
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago

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