CRAZY ex girlfriend!

so this guy i've been talking to for a few weeks has a crazy ex who is still obsessed with him, she knows me and him talk and he's never even told her about me. me and him are kinda getting serious but shes still in love with him, what should i do? is she going to ruin things? HELPPP COMMENT!

Final Results

1st.
dont worry about her, espically if hes totally over her
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62%
2nd.
she doesnt even matter!
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24%
3rd.
talk to her about it
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14%

Comments:

You have to make it clear to her that they are over. Nd he has moved on.
Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago
She does not matter so just totally ignore her. If she causes trouble, just don't back down and let her know for sure that you are with him and she should back off!
Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago
You can't control the ex, but you do need to make sure that she is not any kind of threat. Make sure that you talk to your man about the situation and let him know you feel about the crazy ex. PRD
Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago
You need to just ignore her. Almost everyone has a crazy ex! As long as she is not seriously dangerous (like making threats of Facebook), then just ignore her. But your bf needs to be totally firm with her and let her know it is OVER and they will never get back together. JaneGrant
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
You and he need to talk about her and her actions toward him so that you are both on the same side of the situation. It's you and he against her, in a sense, not that I'm advocating an adversarial approach. If she pulls some stunt, the two of you should talk about it so that it doesn't cause your relationship harm. For instance, if she sends him a sexy message, he should tell you and show you so it doesn't cause conflict between you. If she spreads bad rumors about you, he should know about it so he knows where they are coming from and knows to ignore them. You two are a team. Whatever you do, don't fight her back. Ignore her completely. BOTH OF YOU. Eventually she will quit. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

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