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a guy i had a fling with had a gf at the same time. last night we were talkin about sex&all of a sudden he was like i cant do this anymore im sry blah blah blah. he led me on for so long&tried having sex with me many times&now he wants us to be bff! i was really upset&broke down last nite i evn cut.

Final Results

1st.
Stay away from him
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86%
2nd.
Be friends
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14%

Comments:

Why are you having a fling with a guy that already has a girlfriend? I would think long and hard about that sort of choice....then not make that same choice in the fugure. And, stay away from this guy.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Just stay away from him. He has a gf and you knew he had a gf and you still moved forward with your sexual encounter with him. This guy is a mess and needs to be left alone. Terri
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
stay away from him. if he has 2 gf and he wants u and him 2 be bff then its not worth it. it wont work out given wat u guys have done and started.
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
Given the history i think you should stay away from him, remaining friends with him is only going to cause trouble
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
He has a girlfriend and his conscience finally caught up with him. Do you know how many women have affairs with married men thinking that the men will leave their wives for them? The men rarely do. You've just experienced pretty much the same thing. You were something fun to play with and you were used. Not all men are pigs, but this guy really is, both to you and to his girlfriend. He is not your friend. Keep lots of space between him and you. Don't take it so hard. You've learned a hard but valuable lesson and now you are smarter for it. Right? VOE
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago

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