Cheating Boyfriend? Please Help

We were absolutely in love Now he keeps saying he needs time and is confused& I have been giving him space Well he gave me his fb password in case I felt I couldnt trust him& I found messages between him& another girl say how they couldnt wait to do eachother& it broke my ♥ Is he really cheating?

Final Results

1st.
he is cheating PLEASE COMMENT I NEED ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO
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67%
2nd.
leave and lose my best friend forever
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33%
3rd.
he isnt cheating i just dont understand whats going on
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0%
4th.
he promised hed never cheat i was stupid to believe it
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0%

Comments:

Leave - it is hard, it is sad, but it is over. Do not put yourself through any additional heartache....you deserve so much better! Patti
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
Have to be honest to yourself, he may be, he may not. Ask him "Tell me the truth, Do you really love me?" but ask him to be really honest.
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago
This is fairly obvious to me...he is cheating. And, he wanted to get caught. That is why he gave you the password and allowed you to see this. Maybe he wanted YOU to break up with HIM, so that he didn't have to do the dirty work. Jess
Added by Anonymous - 3 months ago

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