Cheating

I invited this guy over one day when no one was home and we did more than we probably should have. we didnt have sex but he tried. he even bought condoms on his way over. the thing is we both are in a relationship. mine has only been a week his has been about four months. what to do?

Final Results

1st.
End things with this guy for good
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52%
2nd.
Tell + end things with my boyfriend
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33%
3rd.
Tell his girlfriend
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8%
4th.
keep it all a secret
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8%

Comments:

try new things
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
End it with the guy & tell your boyfriend !
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
end it! hes a boy hes just in it for the sex hence why he brougth condoms!
Added by Anonymous - 10 months ago
I think that you need to end things with this guy first and foremost. Second of all, you need to reevaluate your relationship. It is so early in your relationship and you are already cheating. That's wrong no matter how long you have been together. It is unfair NOT to tell him and you don't want to build a relationship based on deceit and lack of trust. You need to tell him and decide if you want to be with him and fight for him or if you tell him and break up with him. Either way, you have to tell him. -Dr. Dcyder
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You should tell your boyfriend it probably wont really hurt you if he leaves you since you invited over anoher guy instead of him . And he shoukd tell his girl or leave her .
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Instead of keeping it to yourself cous it always makes you worry just tell you're bf and say that it didn't mean to happen but say to him nobody's perfect we should all get second chances and everyone makes mistakes and then when that's delt with then talk to that guy and say we should tell you're gf about this aswell, and maybe it will work out if it dosent then..well...everything happens for a reason. xo
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
well if you can cheat on the people you are with then they obviously dont mean that much to either of you so theres no point really staying with them only to hurt them. but remember, if you can both cheat to be with each other, then eventually one of you will cheat on the other to be with someone else..
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
BREAKUP WITH their significant others, and be together!!! you guys obviously have a strong sexual chemistry so go ahead!! come on! it's a 4 months relationship and other of 1 week! hahaha that no even count!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
I'm on the fence about telling your boyfriend. You don't want him finding out from someone else but at the same time, if you tell him, about the only thing that will happen is that you will hurt his feelings. As far as the other guy, don't do it again unless you break off completely with your current. And say nothing to his girlfriend. That is his department. You really messed up and you may lose a good boyfriend over it. I hope it was worth it. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
be honest with everyone. tell your boyfriend and end things with the guy.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
I think you two need to decide where this is going, if you want it to go any further you both need to end it with your partners first. Hiding it from them is not the best way to go about it, they will find out some time and it will just hurt them more
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
obviously you dont really care about your relationship that much or else you would not have done what you did. So i think you should end your relationship. As for the other guy i dont think it would be right if you got involved in his relationship, if he wants to tell her he will, but if not then you should not be the one to do it
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
what you did was wrong, and you should do the right thing by telling his girlfriend and you telling your boyfriend. Things might not go well, but then you won't be feeling guilty throughout the relationship and remember Karma -__-
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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