Can't Get Over Him

Alright... I was with a guy for two years and then I went to rehab for a month to get clean. When I got home, I found out he got a new stupid blonde girlfriend a week after I left and he would rather be with her than me. What do I do? How can I forget about someone I love so much?

Final Results

1st.
Party my ass off and try to forget
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90%
2nd.
Try to get him back
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10%
3rd.
Sit around the house and be depressed like I have been
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0%
4th.
Kill myself
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0%

Comments:

It always amazes me that women always blame other women for losing their men. He left you! She didn't kidnap him. He made the choice. It's his fault. Period. Suppose that you did "win" him back. What would you have? Someone whom you couldn't trust, that's what. You would always be suspicious of where is goes and who he talks with. Who want's a life like that? You just successfully completed rehab. Don't screw that up over him, he isn't worth it. How does that accomplish anything? Instead, celebrate your success by starting a new life for yourself, including a new love interest. Focus on what you learned in rehab. and use it to make a better life for you. VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago
Girly, I'm gonna give it to ya straight. If he couldn't wait for you for a month, he was never worth it to begin with. There are plenty of guys out there that are dying to meet a person like you. You deserve better. Don't get too down on yourself. It wasn't your fault.
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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