boyyyy problems

ive known this guy for a few years and he was a really good friend when i was with my bf, when my bf and i broke up he told me he liked me.. this was a few years ago, we recently started talking again and im convinced he likes me but like all his friends are girls, what should i do??

Final Results

1st.
trust him and start dating him
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63%
2nd.
dont do it
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38%

Comments:

So his friends are girls?? So what?? That should not impact your relationship at all unless you do not trust him. And if you do not trust him, then you should not be in a relationship with him! Tiffany
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
I doubt that all of his friends are girls. I'm sure he has a fair share of guy friends, too, but all you notice are his female friends. Jealousy and resentment is already building in you and this isn't a good thing. You aren't even an exclusive couple and already you are imposing certain expectations on him, even though you may not have expressed them to him. Even if you are exclusive, he gets to have his friends and you get to have yours as long as the trust between you isn't ever betrayed. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Trust him. Every guy I know has female friends and in some cases their best friend is a girl....but they are not interested in them romantically. Olivia
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
Trust him and try to build a relationship with him. Guys are allowed to have female friends and I am confident that you have no reason not to trust him. Jess
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago
The fact that he has females for friends should have no part in this decision for you -- either you trust him or you do not. I say Go For It! Steph
Added by Anonymous - 4 months ago

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