Boyfriend is too friendly with his ex

I have a great relationship with my boyfriend. He loves me, but we have one problem - his ex. She constantly calls him needing relationship advice, or just when she needs a shoulder to cry on. I losing patience, but he says that they are friends and I should respect their relationship.

Final Results

1st.
Accept their relationship but insist on some boundaries
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71%
2nd.
Accept their friendship and get over it
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19%
3rd.
Make him jealous by getting friendly with my ex
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10%
4th.
Put my foot down and make him choose between us
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0%

Comments:

do not put too much bounderies or he will think you are tring to control him... like me and my girl
Added by Anonymous - almost 2 years ago
I know how you feel and i suggest setting some serious boundaries. a line needs to be drawn somewhere or else he'll just keep thinking its okay its okay and before you know it shes "depressed" and calling him to come over and comfort her
Added by mrs_trinh - almost 2 years ago

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