bestfriends ex?

this guy likes me and i like him too but my bestfriend "talked" to him and had a "thing" with him, but he told me they never had a thing and he doesnt like her now. so should i start talking to him and tell her about or not even go for it?

Final Results

1st.
don't even dare go for him.
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55%
2nd.
Talk to her about me and this guy
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45%

Comments:

again girl with the prollem here. We are bestfriends and have been for years. she never actually dated this guy. and she has gone for a guy i liked before and even kissed him and i didnt get mad. she never dated this dude. he never even liked her. she just doesnt want me with him. she said go for it but she had a pissy tone and i knew she was mad. and i havent done anything with him. we both like each other and he still hasnt given up on me.
Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago
If she falls for every guy on earth and claims to have a "thing" with each one, then you can't remain "hands off" with all of them so I think you go ahead with this guy. It doesn't sound like you and her are all that close of friends anyway. If he likes you and you like him, then do it. She will just have to get over it. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 8 months ago
This depends on if she is a good friend or a casual friend. If a good friend or BFF, then it is hands off. If it is a casual friend, then you have a right to be wit him.
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
okay im the one with this prollem. she knows we like each other and their "thing" was last year and he has told me many times he never liked her like that. they never dated. and she likes every guy that walks this earth and thinks her and a guy have a "thing" if they hug so its just annoying.
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
ovb hes gonna say that he didnt have a thing for her cmon be smart
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
If she new u liked in him in the first place she's a bad friend. I'd leave him alone and avoid drama. Shotgun him next time xxx
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
You should not betray your friend by going after some guy that she clearly likes. I don't think you would like that if she did it to you. Forget him. Kat
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

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