Attracted to someone who's not my bf

I love my bf but recently met a guy who I'm really attracted to and we're now friends.I can't stop thinking about him I see him every two weeks.We haven't kissed.I still love my bf but can't get this other guy out of my head.Am I cheating on my bf. Is it ok to have this other guy as a close friend

Final Results

1st.
Should i stop all contact with the other guy?
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45%
2nd.
Should I break up with my bf?
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36%
3rd.
Am I cheating on my bf?
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18%

Comments:

Try sitting down and thinking about your situation. Is this just a crush (of the other guy) or is it an issue with how you feel about your bf? Or it could be something completely different. And I don't think it's cheating, just dnot do anything with the other boy and it won't be really cheating.
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
If you can't stop thinking about this other guy then thats a worry, I think you need to distance yourself from him and focus on your bf. Following that if your feelings don't change to be fair to your bf you probably need to break up with him. Sar
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
I disagree with VOE I think you're always going to be attracted to other guys and its not a big deal as long as you never act on it!
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
What if your bf was thinking about another girl all of the time. Would you consider that cheating? Of course it's cheating. It's called emotional cheating. If you continue the friendship, then you will give in to temptation and probably ruin your relationship with your bf. Look, if you want to give this new guy a go, then be up front and break it off with the current bf. It's OK. Lying and sneaking around never works out for the best. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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