A guy is interested in me and I don't know what to do

Its been a while since I went out with a guy 2 years in fact and I will be 18 soon and I don't know why? or if he wants a relation ship?There is interest but I don't want to be like his other girls and it just be physical. I'm still a Virgin and I don't know my friends give me advice but yeah.

Final Results

1st.
See what happens ( but will be worrying either way))
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57%
2nd.
I could ask him out or just leave things
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43%

Comments:

I just wanted to let you guys know that he made outwith another girl today and is now going out with her. He told me just before on face book in an inbox :/ so yeah doing tyhe girling thing crying and feeling stupid >.<
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
thank you, but yeah being in the maybe collumn is now moving lol but yeah. You see most times I see him we end up making out which isn't really what I want, but desire tends to take over -____- Were trying to go wit hthe flow and see what happens. He texted me when hes at work and hes adorable but yeah, my feelings keep changing one minute all giggly the next wanting him to buggar off and then the next missing him -___- all things I don't need yet have, some how? I tend to sell my self short lol ^_^
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
I think in this situation being in the mayb column is good, it will give you both a chance to move slowly. So then if you do end up committed to each other you'll know that it's right. Good luck for tomorrow!
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
thank you guys :) I appreciate it, but yeah hes saying that he doesn't know if he wants a commitment or not :/ so bassically hes put me in a maybe collumn -____- but yeah will be seeing him tomorrow and will see what happens :) I shall keep you guys posted ^_^ *Sarah*
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
So that's ok you don't have to jump in bed straight away, you can start seeing him casually and just take things slow. You can then start to build a mature relationship and only when you're ready take it to the next level. JH
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
It sounds like you have some doubts about this guy but would like to explore the possibilities. Nothing wrong with that. Take it slow. Don't put yourself in vulnerable situations (drinking, getting high, extended periods of being alone with him). That way you can control what happens. As you get to know him better, you can establish some trust. In the mean time, be as cautious as you feel is necessary. I hope this works out for you. VOE
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago

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