2 girls want to date me and i care about them both equaly

with both of them everyone at school tells me they have never been this happy and that im all they talk about that they really love me even their family/close friend and i dont want to hurt them. everyone says im just so easy to fall in love with how can i change that?

Final Results

1st.
date one of them and end up hurting the other one
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50%
2nd.
stay single and dont date any one
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50%

Comments:

VOE you give very good advice but i have to disagree with this comment. i have been in a situation when a guy that i was in love with asked if he could have an open relationship with me and another girl. it crushed me that he thought i would be ok with sharing him and getting half his affection ...it made me feel so disrepected and unimportant. so did the other girl acturly...we both left him broken hearted with shattered confidence. the moral of the story...even though you don't want to hurt one of them it's for the best to pick one or say no to them both...don't leave them hanging either, make a decision and pronto
Added by Anonymous - about 1 year ago
Date them both but be up front about it. No lying or sneaking around. Establish ground rules that you expect them to not be nasty or talk trash about the other. You shouldn't talk about one to the other, ever. You have to walk a fine line but this is doable. VOE
Added by Anonymous - over 1 year ago

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