11 year friendship over because of a guy...

My bestfriend dated my brother, and in August they broke up. He blamed it on me, for no reason, he showed up at my house, assaulted me, yes, MY BROTHER, and ended up in JAIL until a week ago. She got back with him, so I ended our friendship...

Final Results

1st.
You deserve a better best friend
-
70%
2nd.
I would've done the same...
-
22%
3rd.
You overreacted, get over it
-
8%

Comments:

not much of a best friend and not much of a brother -- i would be super worried about her safety but stay away from both of them.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
Yep, you are right. Don't stress over your decision. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
You also deserve a better brother!! Stay away from both of them!! So they can't blame you for anything!!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
i don't know... it's your best friend! if your brother it's a bad person is his problem, that doesn't have anything to do with your friend.. i mean, you're making the same thing that your brother did to you.. just blaming someone else for your problems.. so let her choice her boyfriend, if he's a bad influence then she suddenly or late going to realized about it, but keep going with your friendship and get over what your brother did. For what you said, your brother is in jail so he isn't the best person out there... you don't have to be unhappy just because other person thoughts and accions.. don't punish your friend!!!
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
If your brother is taking all his anger out on you then you should get him out of your life. If your best friend is dating your brother and doesnt care shes dating YOUR brother thats weird and you should just cut her out of your life. Your brother is a bad person and your friend i guess wants to be around people like that and be influenced by him. its hers and your brothers choice. just move on and forgete about them.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago
you have done the right thing. its best if you cut both of them out of your life as he is a bad person and she will be influenced by him just stay out of their way.
Added by Anonymous - 11 months ago

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