.. he says he likes me.. but doesnt want a relationship..

This guy that Ive been talking to for a long time says he likes me but only wants to have fun and is not wanting a relationship.. he always posts on Facebook about wanting someone to share his life with but when I confront him he always has some stupid excuse..

Final Results

1st.
.. cut him off and no more hanky panky..
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77%
2nd.
play his game better than him and use him
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23%
3rd.
keep doing whatever happens; his mind might change,,
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0%

Comments:

Of course the hanky panky has got to go. Any guy that does not get that is not worth your time. Either you guys are in a relationship or you are not -- can't have it both ways! Tiffany
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
Hanky panky? Nope, not if he does not want a real relationship. He can't have it both ways! As long as you are giving in to him then there is no incentive for him to treat you like a real girlfriend. Sierra
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
if he is not into you then he is not into you....what are you gonna do about that??let him find some other new girl and u go find some new guy.
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
No games, you should just give up on this guy. It sounds like you are just not his type, which is no big deal. Go find a nice guy who is really into you. Matty
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
It sounds like that he's made it clear several times that he isn't interested in you as a girlfriend. He isn't giving hints, he is being direct. His part of the communication process is working, yours is not. Move on. VOE
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
If you really want to have a relationship with this guy then I think you need to move on and cut out the hanky panky cause he's made it pretty clear that he doesn't want a relationship with you. Yes you could hang around waiting for him to change his mind but this may never happen. I think your time would be better spent going and finding someone who does want to be in a relationship with you
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago
just leave it out blad:D! jokess, maybe hes to scared to ask you out make the first move if he still says no just get over him what you got to lose?:)x
Added by Anonymous - 9 months ago

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